Live as You Want
and Have a Great Life

You have to live as you want to have a great life. 

The problem is that no one around you is interested in you doing what you want to to do.

No one.

That's why you have to go on-line to read articles, listen to podcasts and watch videos made by people you don't know who seem to have a better life than you.

And they seem to be interested in sharing that information with you and encouraging you to go after whatever it is that you want.

That's what I did.  I needed to search out information from a wide variety of sources to begin to turn my life around.

Even though I had very loving, and supportive parents, wonderful siblings and great friends.

But those good people were kept from me by an overly critical, suspicious and controlling wife.

The person closest to me, my wife, would not allow my favorite people into my life. 

So I had to read on the internet stories, advice and ideas from others.

My wife controlled the real people in my life, but she could not control the on-line people.

So I owe a tremendous debt of gratitude to all the people who wrote their heart-wrenching, pain filled, tear soaked stories about the misery their wives caused in their lives.

And how only be leaving, did their lives improve.

Thank you.  You were right.

Live as You Want
I Totally Changed My Life

I used to

  • Be under the thumb of a verbally abusive wife.
  • Spend all my money on other people.
  • Be totally out of control in debt.
  • Hardly have any fun.
  • Be flabby, weak and pale.
  • Be stressed out at work and not enjoying my job.

I changed my thoughts, my actions and my life.  And I have never been happier.

Now I

  • Only spend time with people, and women, I enjoy.
  • Spend a significant portion of MY money on what I desire.
  • Have my debts under control
  • Have fun much of the time.  I had the best summer of my life and the best trip of my life.
  • I am lifting hard, getting stronger and leaner and spending time in the sun.
  • I changed jobs and am loving my career and doing very well at it.

Live as You Want
How I did that on my Recent Vacation

I did all the things I love to do on my recent vacation

  • I got up early to drink coffee and do something productive like driving, reading, planning or thinking.
  • I stayed up late to party, drink beer, socialize, meet new people, including attractive girls.
  • I drove around in my beautiful truck, seeing things I have never seen before.
  • I pushed myself to my physical limits.
  • I studied maps and information, planning my next adventures.
  • I explored new cities.
  • I went out for breakfast, coffee, lunch, ice cream, dinner and drinks.
  • I slept in as needed, napped when tired and relaxed and recharged so I felt great all the time.
  • I checked in with my kids and mom to make sure they were ok and reassure them I was ok.
  • I hiked in majestic settings.
The mountains will heal you. You just need to get into them.

Live as You Want
What I do during my normal life

  • I get up early to drink coffee, think, plan, read my favorite bloggers, read books, and write for this website.
  • I drive to work early in the morning to avoid traffic.
  • I work productively at my  high quality career.
  • I do not work long hours.
  • I chain my errands after work.
  • I get home in the afternoon and either make a nice dinner, do some chores or work out.
  • I do more writing, reading or relaxing in the evening.
  • I do more of all this on the weekends. 
  • I also go out on dates, meet friends, party and socialize as often as I want.

Take Care of Your Needs First

Nice video from Randy Gage on living rich by taking care of your needs first.  Do the things you want to do to make your life great.

Video from Randy Gage

The only way I could become the happier man I am today was by leaving my wife.  You might be in the same situation I was in.  I suggest you take a look at my book - Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System.

Click to go to learn more about the book

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