A Happier Man - About Me Page

Welcome to the A Happier Man About Me Page.  I have become a happier man using my 3 step system.

  1. Get Your Mind Right
  2. Take Action
  3. Rest, Heal, Recharge, Grow

I started this website with the name ahappierman.com because I am happier.

Happier than I was. 

Life is still not perfect.  I have issues and problems.  I don't do nearly all the things I want to do.

But I am working toward it.

The happier part comes in because I have shed most of the beliefs I held that kept me in misery being married to a verbally abusive woman.

Thank you for spending some time on my website. Here is a little bit about me.

Random Things About Me

The creator of ahappierman.com
  • I live in Southeast Wisconsin with my daughter.
  • My son is living on his own now.
  • I am divorced.
  • I was married for 14 years.
  • I am a professional civil engineer and have been doing that for the last 28 years.
  • I am fascinated by the personal development field and am constantly reading about it, thinking about it, planning and then taking measured action.
  • I tend to read books, blogs and websites from men, although I have learned a lot from women.
  • I lift weights.  Usually 2 times per week.
  • I want to stay strong.
  • I have had plenty of injuries and aches and pains.
  • I like to hike in natural areas.
  • My favorite sport is pro football.
  • My favorite team is the Green Bay Packers.
  • I rarely watch other sports.  Sometimes pro baseball playoffs.  Some college football and some NCAA college basketball tournament.
  • I read...a lot.
  • I like to drink Miller 64.  But I will try other beers and drinks.
  • I don't mind getting drunk...occasionally.
  • I am happy the way I am.
  • I eat big steaks.
  • I am overweight but working on it.
  • I used to be 6'- 1" tall but am closer to 6'-0" now.
  • I am going bald and I don't really care.  I keep what hair I have nice and short.
  • I can work hard, but I would rather not.
  • I am smart, even though I am a big guy.
  •  I like to lounge around with my feet up as much as possible.
  • I try to look good.
  • I like women.  Talking.  Holding hands.  Dancing. Kissing.  Making out and sex.
  • My favorite person in the world is my dad.  Now that he is dead I feel like I have no one to talk to.
  • I would rather buy things for myself than gifts for others.  I kind of hate buying gifts for others.
  • I like money, earning it, keeping it and having it.
  • I like to take naps.
  • I like pickup trucks and RV's.
  • I like to laugh at our rulers.
  • I like to travel.
  • My favorite singer is Merle Haggard.
  • My favorite band is AC-DC.
  • I tend to like comedy show re-runs...early MASH, Seinfeld, Cheers, Two and a Half Men.
  • I prefer action movies.
  • I like to be comfortable.
  • I have wide feet and always have a hard time buying shoes.
  • I believe it is your right to live your life exactly as you would like to live it.
  • I did not always think this way.
  •  I used to believe in struggle and sacrifice.
  • I used to believe that other people mattered more than I did.
  • I used to believe that my life did not matter.
  • But no longer.
  • I am a happier man.

I Am also a  Writer

I have created other websites and books. Here is my Amazon Author page -

Amazon Author, Hans Hallanger

Why I am Qualified to Write About Being Happier

I used to be unhappy most of the time.  I was bored and frustrated as a child. It seemed I always had to do something I did not want to do.

I hated being told what to do and doing things I did not want to do as a teenager. 

I have always wanted to do what I wanted to do.

Still do.

I have been pushed around, bullied, berated, manipulated and guilt-ed into doing all kinds of things I did not want to do.

I was miserable in the last years of my marriage and eventually left the marriage 

I know the difference between unhappiness and happiness.

I choose to be happier and I will share with you what works for me.

Thank you for reading about me. 

› About Me

The only way I could become the happier man I am today was by leaving my wife.  You might be in the same situation I was in.  I suggest you take a look at my book - Leave Your Wife & Become a Happier Man with the 3 Step System.

Click to go to learn more about the book

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