HOW DO YOU GET HAPPY WHEN YOUR X-GIRLFRIEND GAVE YOU GENTIAL HERPES

by LONESOME LOSER
(WISCONSIN)

My ex-girlfriend, who I loved with all my heart gave me herpes after getting back together with her, after being with her 2 years in the late nineties.

She approached me and I was again interested. We were together for 14 months when it became confirmed by a doctor that I had it and now I'm proudly registered with the health department.

She subsequently had made me think it was something else as it faded and reappeared months later, only to ultimately break up with me, after I took her to Maui for 2 weeks and then blame me for it with my promiscuous past and her lily white skin, NOT !!!.

I think she wanted me to pop the question there, but I did not. Yes, it could have laid dormant for years and years, but I was not having sex with anyone for years and then suddenly got 3 bouts of it with her. Either she is in denial, does not know she has it, or I had it all along dormant as that is a possibility.

She will not talk to me now since April of 2017 and all signs point to her diabolical intent. Unfortunately, I am one of these guys that has a knack for giving the wrong people the benefit of the doubt. I still have deep feelings for her and would forgive her and be with her if only she would talk, but of course the liar she is, says she is clean and harmless. I refuse to date anyone without them knowing my status and my friend knows about it and we do not have sex. I am not really dating now as she has rejected me.

So my choices are to be with someone who has it or risk it with full disclosure where our chances of success are limited and grim. Who would want to be with someone who is open about having herpes unless they have it. If you look at the stats, 80/90 % of people who have it do not even know it, yet doctors and STD clinics do not promote getting a test. The clinic I demanded we went to first off did not either, and so I end up with it for life now.

The western blot test is the only one that is 99% accurate and you have to send for it for 150.00 bucks. Of course, you find that out after the fact. Being with someone who has HSV2 is not exactly and attractive prospect as you might imagine. Its like either sticking your junk in a meat grinder and/or walking around feeling like half of you is DEAD.

So now you know my story, how do I get to that point of happy when a bitch intentionally destroyed a huge part of intimacy that evolves you there with a woman.

Oh yeah, almost forgot one thing. Its probably all my fault anyways because I didn't marry her in the 90s and have a kid with her like she wanted me to. Payback is a bitch i guess and BEWARE OF OLD GIRL-FIENDS.

Lets see you cover that topic next time HAPPY MAN !!!!!

I'd love to see you talk about someone else's predicament and what they should do. Sometimes I feel like I should just go over there and get on one knee, what's the difference, we probably both have it and I'm F-ed.

Sincerely, Lonesome Loser