Issue # 167

Create Your Ideal Life

Start to create your ideal life. You only have one, you know. If anything is not right in your life, start making whatever changes are necessary. Waiting will not make it easier.

What do you want to stop doing? Who do you want to stop dealing with? What makes your life hard? What causes the most anxiety? What do you want to avoid? What do you absolutely hate?

What do you want to start adding in? What makes you laugh? What makes you happy when you think about doing it? And what do you absolutely love?

These are all critical questions that you need to spend considerable time asking yourself and even more time figuring out what the answer is.

You'll say...I don't have time for that. I'm too busy. I've got too many responsibilities and time commitments to spend many hours at a time over many days, maybe weeks, maybe months, to think about my life.

Exactly.

That's why you have very far from your ideal life.

Since you don't have time for you, the way your life is going is not going to be good for you.

Or another way, the time you spend on examining your preferences is going to provide you much more of a chance at an ideal life than worrying about other people and waiting for them to change or provide you something.

Like any other good thing in your life, determining how to create your ideal life takes thinking, planning and then acting on those thoughts and plans.

Yes, this is going to be difficult, time consuming and energy draining.

It may get extremely expensive and messy if you determine you have to end a marriage.

You are going to have to expend massive amounts of time and energy to change careers and move to a different location.

You may even have to deal with other people actively trying to stop you tying to create your ideal life if you discuss this with the wrong people. A hint on this is to keep most of your plans and ideas to yourself.

So, at minimum, it is not going to be easy.

You might not even know where to begin.

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